Heidi Frye Blog
Leaders transform when they “do the work”, plug into their core, and BE the best version of themselves. Here are a few written resources to help you on your Whole Leader journey.
I Messed Up
I walked into an interaction carrying someone else's opinion, and without realizing it, I started looking for evidence to prove them right. It was a powerful reminder of how easily we can give away our own judgment and personal power. Sometimes the energy we bring into a room shapes what happens once we get there. Everyone deserves the chance to make their own first impression.
Whose Voice Is That?
Before we were old enough to question what we were hearing, we were already listening. The messages we absorb early in life can become beliefs, and eventually we may mistake those beliefs for our personality. But what if some of the things we believe about ourselves aren't actually who we are? What if they're simply stories we've been carrying for years?
Excellence, Not Perfection!
What if the goal isn't perfection, but excellence? One is driven by fear. The other by purpose. That distinction changed how I think about doing my best. Excellence can still mean having incredibly high standards, without demanding flawlessness.
Seeing Something Anew
A simple question during a leadership Master Class led to an unforgettable moment of insight. What began as a discussion about communication styles uncovered something much deeper: the stories we tell ourselves, the ways we seek approval, and the transformative power of seeing ourselves anew.
Life Is a Classroom, Not a Courtroom
Do you treat life like a classroom—or a courtroom? The difference changes everything. When we stop judging our mistakes and start learning from them, we become more self-aware, resilient, and effective leaders.
Well, That Was Awkward
A technical glitch replaced every subscriber's name with "Test First Name." While fixing the problem, I realized something surprising: I didn't actually miss the personalized greeting. What started as an email mistake became a lesson in authenticity, curiosity, and finding opportunity in unexpected places.