Heidi Frye Blog
Leaders transform when they “do the work”, plug into their core, and BE the best version of themselves. Here are a few written resources to help you on your Whole Leader journey.
Excellence, Not Perfection!
What if the goal isn't perfection, but excellence? One is driven by fear. The other by purpose. That distinction changed how I think about doing my best. Excellence can still mean having incredibly high standards, without demanding flawlessness.
The Choice That Reveals Your Leadership
A quiet conversation at a lakeside cottage unexpectedly turned into an emotional confrontation. In the moments that followed, I was reminded that leadership isn't measured by how we respond when life is easy—but by the choices we make when it isn't. Sometimes protecting our peace means choosing our values over our ego.
Seeing Something Anew
A simple question during a leadership Master Class led to an unforgettable moment of insight. What began as a discussion about communication styles uncovered something much deeper: the stories we tell ourselves, the ways we seek approval, and the transformative power of seeing ourselves anew.
Life Is a Classroom, Not a Courtroom
Do you treat life like a classroom—or a courtroom? The difference changes everything. When we stop judging our mistakes and start learning from them, we become more self-aware, resilient, and effective leaders.
When Leadership Means Following
A ballroom dance lesson turned into an unexpected leadership lesson. Sometimes the greatest strength isn't knowing how to lead—it's knowing when to trust, follow, learn, and let someone else guide the next step.
Stepping Into Your Power Applies to Men Too
Two conversations in a client lobby reminded me of an important leadership truth: stepping into your power is not about aggression or ego. It's about awareness, clarity, and having the courage to act. In both cases, once these leaders recognized where they were giving away their power, the solution became obvious—and the impact was immediate.
Well, That Was Awkward
A technical glitch replaced every subscriber's name with "Test First Name." While fixing the problem, I realized something surprising: I didn't actually miss the personalized greeting. What started as an email mistake became a lesson in authenticity, curiosity, and finding opportunity in unexpected places.